What does it mean when a guy does not want me to wear shorts to a party?

So I was out on rock-climbing date (I was wearing shorts at the time for the athletic adventure) and the guy asked me out again to a birthday party with him that night. I noticed that on our rock-climbing adventure, he kept looking at my legs. But then he warned me not to wear shorts to the birthday party. And that irritated me a bit, since I was planning wearing shorts (shorts are in right now! it can be worn to look dressy with the right top and shoes. And it's summer! and we were in a desert state). I was offended. Does that mean he thinks my legs are ugly? or what? that I shouldn't go to a party with him having ugly legs?

What does it mean when a guy does not want me to wear shorts to a party?
He doesn't want the other guys at the party flirting with you!





He's got a jealous temper.
Reply:wear whatever you like.. it's your body...





if he thinks he has to dress you, what is next?
Reply:well that depends on what you think your legs look like. Are they in shape or do you think they need work?? Maybe the attire for the party isn't for casual dress. Maybe he is a little protective. You don't know unless you ask??
Reply:Wearing shorts to go to a party is not appropriate,unless it is a barbecue party. I know that shorts are always in fashion. I am a bikini and shorts woman,but when I go out with a guy I wear dress or blouse and skirt. Any man I have dated never tells me what not to wear.I think he is not thinking about your legs to show of,he is thinking about a good impression of you to others,so he can be proud of you.
Reply:Maybe he's afraid that if you wear them you'll have every guy's attention at the party, and he'll be jealous..seems like a typical guy way of thinking.
Reply:Did you ask him why?
Reply:Why don't you just ask him. He may not want anyone to seeyour beautiful legs or hemay be controlling or he may be protecting you soo ask him and you should not beafraid to ask him and he should be cool about it never date a controlling hot tempered man.
Reply:However he feels about the condition of your legs, he sounds very controlling. I'd stay clear of this guy. No one has a right to tell you what to wear - ever!
Reply:it could b that or maybe he just doesnt want guys to be all over his date.idk its kinda wierd.
Reply:Or maybe you're legs look really good, and he doesn't want anybody else looking at them. Probably just wants them all to himself. :D
Reply:maybe he really likes them, but he doesn't want to seem like a freak by staring at your legs the whole time, instead he wants to focus on you instead, believe me some guys are really into legs, some find it the sexiest part. anyways maybe he just doesn't want to be distracted and just know you and not just that you have nice legs... possible... that kinda happened to me after this party i went to, a lot of guys only started talking about my legs after that...
Reply:It probably means he thinks your legs are hot and he doesn't want other guys drooling. You can get him back for putting you through this dilemna by wearing a mini skirt to the dance. Guys can drool and when he gets mad you can remind him you didn't wear shorts, just as he asked. Of course, all us guys out here could more easily study your problem if you posted a picture of you in shorts or a skirt. for research purposes only, of course.
Reply:Maybe he thinks you have hot sexy legs and he doesn't want ayone else seeing them...He wants it all for himself...
Reply:probably just means he doesn't want other guys checking you out...especially if you were his date to the party
Reply:i dont think he was impressed with your legs sorry
Reply:It depends,


but he could have been checking you out on the rock climbing date, lol.


And he just might not want other guys hitting on you lol.
Reply:well, maybe he thinks you have GORGEOUS legs...hehe...trust me...men are like that...my man does not like me wearing anything above my knee...unless im in the house...lol...so before you get all mad and offended, why dont you ask him...and plus...honey, do you honestly think he would ask you out AGAIN if he thought you had ugly legs??? I dont think so!!!
Reply:Depends.





Shorts are NOT really all that attractive on girls.
Reply:They weren't those stupid shorts that go to just below your knees and are usually black and look really stupid? Because those are freaking ugly, no matter how fashionable they may be. Make your legs look stupid and fat. Don't ever wear them!
Reply:Regardless of why he doesn't want you wearing shorts, it seems to me that he is controlling. Who does he think he is, telling you what you can or can't wear on a date with him? Rethink this one.
Reply:Maybe he said that because it's a little dressier type of party and he didn't want you feel out of place or embarrassed. I think he was trying to be considerate, so that you would have a good time. ........OR.......


He figures it would be easier to get to the "goodies" if you wore a short skirt!



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