Monday, August 3, 2009

My wife had this disturbing dream help please?

My wife dreamed that we kept having a bunch of babies %26amp; we were throwing them all away, she said they were all in shoe like boxes outside her parents house %26amp; there were hundreds of them %26amp; she was out there climbing over this mountain of dead babies %26amp; some of them were more decomposed than others %26amp; some of them were calling out to her, saying "momma" what in the world does this dream mean?

My wife had this disturbing dream help please?
I am just going to be honest with what I feel:





It seems like you guys may not be so good for each other. In this case, babies denote fertility, not just for offspring, but to me I got the image of ideas. This is not a dream about babies, even if you have a new baby. The babies are things that you are "throwing away" in "shoe boxes" outside her parents home. You used the word "we" to designate who is throwing them away; not "her" but "we." You guys waste time and energy and money together.





Shoes to me denote forward movement, and both of you are throwing the babies away in shoe boxes. Since you said she had this dream with her latest pregnancy, her subconscious mind may not have wanted to be pregnant again so soon; maybe it is so overwhelming for her with the toddler and the other child and then another pregnancy.





I think she feels a lot of pressure by her family to stay in this marriage (that's why her parents' house was in the dream and the place where you throw the babies away), even if it isn't healthy for her. The image of the parents' house and throwing the shoe boxes full of babies came to me like she was saying "here, I've done all of this for you, rather than for me!)





The mountain is the pressure she feels and the obstacle that she has to keep climbing.





This dream was her wake up call.
Reply:Maybe she has done somethig she is feeling guilty about. It could be anything.
Reply:OH MY GOD!!!! No just kidding lol. Anyways, a lot of people will say, "Oh, this dream means this, or that dream means that". These people are full of penguin ****. Dreams are nothing more than just collections of thoughts that you have had throughout your day. Dreams may also just be caused by something that is on tv if you leave it on while you sleep. For example, last night I was watching Planet Terror, and I had a dream I was in a zombie flick. That dream just happened because I watched Planet Terror, not because I have some complex about death or something.
Reply:I don't know what that means, but that is ****** up.
Reply:is she pregnant?


you may wanna take a pregnancy test...asap
Reply:maybe she is having reoccuring problems in her life dat is haunting her
Reply:go to www.dreammoods.com
Reply:It probably means that she had a few miscarriages and didnt know it. that happens sometimes...on the other hand it could mean that she really doesnt want alot of kids but would probably have them anyway...good luck..it doesnt mean that she is pregnant....
Reply:Your wife needs help. She needs to see a dr. about depression and OCD. This is one of those situations when you can't be sure the kids will be okay when you get home.





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Reply:Your wife is overwhelmed by the children in her life. She feels it's too much for her to deal with all the needs of the children in her life. She would like some of those needs (the babies represent needs) to be disposable, she'd like some of those needs to disappear. She feels the needs are very numerous and daily and that it's very hard for meet them all. Some of the needs are more urgent than others. Your wife needs help with everyday things. The dream is telling her in very strong terms that she can't cope with all the feeding, cleaning, helping, looking after. Looking after a new baby, a toddler and a near-teenager is exhausting her. Some of the needs she simply can't meet (that is why they are decomposed). She feels bad about this. Here is a dream with a strong message: I need some practical help. The "shoe" in the dream makes me think of the nursery rhyme - there was an old woman who lived in a shoe, she has so many children she didn't know what to do. Your wife doesn't know what to do. Maybe some solutions can be found. Hope this helps.
Reply:I think that dream means that your wife is stressed out.





I think that alot of people needs your wife's help but she cant really do anything about it, thus causing her to be so stressed out or disturbed.


Also i think that she is trying her best to help other people but its extremely hard.





Also you should provide some additional facts about your wife. The best dream interretations will only be possible if we know some important key facts linked to the dream AND the dreamer.
Reply:Well she just seems stressed, I suggest you do not have your children home schooled
Reply:It might mean that she's having a hard time adjusting to a new situation and that is pressuring her to change or adapt in the circumstance that she's on when she was having that dream.Since babies basically symbolizes new things, new situations, etc. and mountains: hardship.





But, dreams are subjective responses so you might also want to ask her how she feels about babies and what it means for her.
Reply:To dream about a starving baby, represents your dependence on others. You are experiencing some deficiency in your life that needs immediate attention and gratification. To see a dead baby in your dream, symbolizes the ending of something that is part of you.
Reply:I was about to say "congratulations" until I saw your answer to the first poster! It’s very common for a pregnant woman to have vivid, violent, or otherwise unusual dreams.





But-you shouldn't totally discount this dream, especially if it's still bothering you-or her. Seems as if the "infant graveyard" being outside her parent's home is a sign that she felt inadequately prepared by them, for life. And, a family of 3 is a big responsibility!





Is there any way you can get help-someone to watch the kids, or even one or two, a few days a week? If you can't afford it, are there relatives you could ask? (I hate to include her family, because of the dream, but maybe she has a few close sisters, aunts, cousins, that she trusts.) Could you get someone to take over part of your oldest child's schooling? Even a free day a week could give her the rest and time to herself she needs. Do you go to church, belong to a club? Sometimes, members do or each other or "exchange" chores.





Anyhow, you should see that she gets some rest, and doesn't neglect her own health. I do wish all of you the best.
Reply:Like someone else said, this dream is about your relationship and how it is affecting her. It is not about babies or your kids; it is about her having to take on a lot of responsibility and taking the blame for the mess that has been made.
Reply:Most probably since last year your wife is under lots of stress and it could be in any area of her life . She is so fed up fighting and trying to find a solution that.she is about to give up ; but something deep down is telling her don't ;you will get a solution



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